The conflict with you and your seed within.
There are two lifeforms within you.
One is the life that is you, a manifest life form, the other is the seed of life within you that will eventually become your child, an unmanifest life form.
This life form is your chi, prana or inner child within you.
As this unmanifest life form rises inside you, it will harmonise with you.
It is essentially you which will end up in the body of your child as it is born.
As this unmanifest life form within you rises and harmonises with you, biologically, emotionally, mentally etc.
A conflict of interests may arise, and this is where the discomfort, anxiety, depression manifests.
Most of us think only of ourselves, our own pleasure needs, financial, material needs etc.
But as this unmanifest life form rises inside you, it forces you to think of others or think about it, no longer considering your own needs but the needs of others.
This harmony with life around you, begins inside you.
If you waste this unmanifest life form within you, you are disrespecting it, and it will eventually manifest as your child which will disrespect and distrust you.
You can become depressed, anxious etc as this unmanifest life form rises inside you.
For it will force you to become selfless, to think for others and to share your creative force for the benefit of others.
If a person chooses to resist the harmonisation of unmanifest life forces within, then only conflict in the form of anxiety, depression results.
The only solution is selflessness and consideration of others, this relationship with your unmanifest life form also extends into your relationships with the outside world.
People can sense whether you are harmonious or not with life within you, and this impacts on how people feel about you, whether they interact with you on a regular basis, share ideas etc.
You can not trick this unmanifest life form, for it is essentially you in another sense.
Be honest with yourself, as it rises into the different levels inside you.
Learn to let go and to love others, love is the only way, for their is no other purpose in life worth pursuing only love.